You Matter International

Flow, Adaptation, and the Creative Process of Manifestation.

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Today I woke to an invitation from the Universe to practice flow.  It was awesome, because it was our You Matter International "Coffee Talk" guest telling me she was going to need to reschedule, and oh do I get that, as I myself was in the not feeling so well life is cancelled place a few weeks back.

I thought, well, I know something awesome is going to happen, what will we do and create instead?  Then I saw the post I had already pre-qued to go out in our You Matter International Facebook group:  "Flow is energy in motion. So you have to become the embodiment of energy in motion- that is, flexible, fluid, and fast on your feet."

From this space came a presentation and conversation unfolding on the process of flow and how it relates to the context of the creative process.  I share about the stages of creation as spelled out by Dr. Thurman Fleet in Concept Therapy and how a few of those stages offer the invitation for flow as both adaptation and ultimately as a kind of cosmic, or, love consciousness.

Join us in the conversation right here!  (And, join our community for invitations to future coffee talks, like, our now "Women's Empowerment, Women's Pleasure" happening on Valentines Day morning, 9:30-10:30 pst). 

Wanna go deeper with us? Join the My Love Bomb Program if you live in Denver, Napa, Oakland, Tacoma, or Portland or bring it to your city by joining the 2018 My Love Bomb Program Facilitator Training.  Registration closes February 2nd, 2018 and the journey begins.

Money Mindset with Dr. Lacey Book

Yes! This is our first "Coffee Talk" version of the You Matter International Virtual Women's Group Gathering and what an awesome way to start a week!

In this conversation Lacey helps us to push our concepts around money and life into expansion.  It's an awesome December action to take as we prep for expansion dreams in 2018.

Take home Action Steps!

Take Home Points:

1. Expand your concepts around money by reading "The Little Money Bible"
2. Highlight quotes from the book that expand your ideas and feel good, as well as those that challenge.
3. Post those quotes where you will see them regularly and consider putting some on your Dream Board.
4. Set an "Abundance Alarm" on your phone for mind expanding wake-ups.
5. Set rewards for when you hit new levels of abundance in your money goals and get your neurology reprogrammed for an expanded life.

Wanna be sure to connect to our community and future life coffee talks?  Join here (currently signing up for the Dream, Vision, Build free community challenge in January as well as coffee talks invitations):  mylovebomb.com/join-the-community

 

Anchor To Your Strengths with Author Melinda King Brecheisen

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In this You Matter International virtual workshop we meet with author of Anchor To Your Strengths (anchortoyourstrengths.com) Melinda King Brecheisen.

She is massively inspiring in teaching us the power of learning what our strengths are through the Strengths Finder system, and then focusing on them for uniquely working towards goals in our lives.

In this quick virtual workshop you will:

  • GET why focusing on your Strengths is so full of ease.
  • Learn the power of Anchoring
  • Experience Anchoring to the Feeling of "Empowerment"
  • Learn how to use Anchoring with Essential Oils 
  • Learn how to use your Strengths to uniquely pursue your goals.

This is a perfect workshop as we gear up towards an empowered vision of what we are going to bring into our lives in 2018 with the free 8 day "Dream, Vision, Build" challenge being delivered to everyone in the You Matter International community.

Interested in receiving that plus more You Matter International free workshops? Join our community here:  eepurl.com/c4dBrv

MLB Insider's Scoop Week 4 of 8: Trauma as Transformation

Hi There, Rhea here.

What a week in the world.  This has been a heart breaking week for us in the U.S. with another mass-murder.  Wow, writing those words makes it sink in even more.  I hate that since the making of this film there have been so many moments where the mission of the healing we were demonstrating is so stupidly relevant.  

When we were filming the interview of Marilyn Schlitz and Dean Radin we turned on our phones in between to find out that Sandy Hook had happened.  My face was already on fire from a combination of reaction to a facial the day before (I had woken with it swelled up all around) and the news that week that mom's cancer had metastasized.  

Life sometimes seems to just keep kicking us in the ass instead of taming down to a calm keel.  And the story of when it rains it pours, well, that happened this past month as well.

In the depths of the fact that part of life is trauma, and these traumas are a combination of human caused, human behavior related, and nature taking it's course, we have chosen to address the possibility of trauma as a transformational process within the My Love Bomb Program, and, inside of the film Love Bomb itself.

In fact, if you are looking for a full injection of the hope inside of humans, and our capacity to heal and transform, after you watch the clip, watch the film, it's free here.

Angels are all around us in the form of human helpers, we are stronger than we think, and pain is an indication of the need for healing, and healing is a form of transformation.  There is also no road to healing that I know of that doesn't involve moving through the pain to get to the other side.  If you need to feel uplifting possibility, tune in to the good that being shared about all of the human helpers that put their lives on a limb to help out on Monday in Las Vegas.  The good ones outweigh the bad, and we can heal from this, and hopefully, embody the vulnerable journey of becoming Love Bombers.

In fact, I'm going to share what that means right here in terms of our values, because, it takes grit, courage, and community to be open hearted and loving in the face of what life is asking of us:

  • We practice unconditional Love.

  • We empower and take care of ourselves so that we can do the same for others.

  • We believe everyone has inherent value and gifts to offer the world.

  • We anchor to the heart.

  • We are stronger together.

  • We forgive each other and ourselves.

  • We accept responsibility for our actions and their impact on others.

  • We find power on the other side of our vulnerability.

  • We have fun.  ;)  

  • We take a stand.

  • We achieve our vision with grit and healthy endurance.

Together we stay alive, we stay human, which means a willingness to break open instead of break down and shut down.  The lotus blossoms from the murky waters, and we can do that individually and collectively.  

Meanwhile, as my dear friend and My Love Bomb Facilitator Dr. Lauren Clum would say, you all are in my love bubble, so if you need some extra encouragement or hand holding during this time, reach out by connecting over at our Facebook group, You Matter International.

Big Love!

Rhea

Ready for a Mini-Journey? My Love Bomb Program Week 1 of 8

Hi There!  It's Rhea and I am fresh inside of Week 1 of the My Love Bomb Program after months of preparations.  Last night's group experience in Napa was so wonderfully heart warming.  I feel an instal-boost of relaxation into love, enough-ness, support, and being right here.  That combined with the group call from Monday night where we instantly saw just how not alone we are in our desires to serve, our sometimes isolation, our uncertainties of where we're heading, and our insta-tonified feeling from connection has me feeling ready to share the experience with you in a mini-version.

Me and the rest of the facilitators will be letting you in on min-bits of what we are doing each week while inviting you to join us with a little exercise that can help you to pause, soften, open, listen, and expand into the next evolutionary level of you.

This week we're asking you to take a pause of intentional self love and love of others, use that to intention to open up.  Then, in a relaxed way, listen to the little "anxious tugs" inside if yourself, allow them to bubble forward as a question.  Write those questions down.  That's it!  No answer finding, no goal setting, just, what is my question?

From questions come answers, steps, and the light becomes shined on stagnancy so that momentum of healing and change and answers can begin.  

I'll be back next week with another step, and I'll also be sharing these inside of the You Matter International Facebook group where other women like you are hanging out.

Big Love!

Rhea

Open Hearted Life Challenge! (July 24 - August 4th, 2017)

Hi There!  I am so excited to invite you all to the Open Hearted Life Challenge starting this Monday, July 24- August 4th, 2017!

Here is what it's all about:

If you are you ready to clear out the mental clutter, connect to what is meaningful to you, and share in collective awe this summer, then this is going to be the perfect "challenge" for you!

Together we will experience the power of:

5 Minutes of daily self-reflection
daily moments of awe
dropping into the heart using positive psychology audios
connecting to an international community of value-sharing women through group connection calls and the community You Matter International group on Facebook

Each day of the 12 Day Challenge includes:

Listening to your Breathe Love track of the day, which will be delivered via email and will take you 5-10 minutes to complete.


Filling out your daily self-reflection mind-map that correlates with the track of the day. (PDF attached to this email; 2-3 min)


Taking a photograph of something that elicits a feeling of "awe" to you. (1 min)
Sharing the photograph via Instagram or Facebook with #OpenHeartedLifeChallenge1/12 (2-3 min)


Seeing the "winning photo" shared in the You Matter International Facebook group. (Daily winners will be selected via Instagram and Facebook. Winners will be announced inside of the You Matter International Facebook group and will then receive an opportunity to share a little extra love with the person of their choosing...I will write a card directly to that person, featuring my own daily AWE photograph.)

In 12 days you will:

Feel more clarity about what matters to you
Feel more in the moment
Enjoy your summer
Calm your mind and tune into your heart
Connect with other like-minded women

Key Challenge Dates:

July 24th-August 4th
Receive daily emails with the Breathe Love track of the day, a quick message of encouragement, and your daily mind-map self-reflection theme.
Monday, July 24th
Challenge Launch Connection call with Rhea via Zoom: 7:30-8:30 PM PCT (Call-in info will be delivered to your inbox that day)
Monday, August 7th
Challenge Closure Connection call with Rhea via Zoom:  7:30-8:30 p.m. PCT (Call-in info will be delivered to your inbox that day)
August 14th-17th
In-person challenge connections for participants in cities with You Matter Meetups (Arcata, Denver, Portland, Tacoma, Oakland, S. San Francisco, Santa Rosa, Napa) (See complete details at YouMatterMeetups.Com)

I am so excited about this opportunity to get closer to this community, and, for you all to get closer to one another!

Big Love,

Dr. Rhea Zimmerman Komarek

You Can't be in Growth and in Protection at the Same Time

Hi There!  Rhea here with a topic close to my heart.

The truth is, no matter where you are in life, if you are open to the fact that life is actually a cyclical process of renewal, which means change, then you, like me, vacillate between embracing that process of growth, and shuttering from it in protection.

While I believe that the models of nature provide us with the realities to harmonize with, versus battle, which means protection is a part of our lives for a reason, I also know as a chiropractor that the ramifications of living in protection (constant fight or flight nervous system response) mean that it is not a system we were designed to live in full time.

Bruce Lipton, Cellular biologist, also looks at how our bodies can't thrive in growth on a cellular level while they are busy in protection chemistry.

For this reason, it is imperative to create life strategies for noticing the fear, handling it, and then moving forward in trust of our growth choices, especially during the bigger "chapter changes" of our lives!

Hopefully this video is a little inspiration in that direction for you!  And,...looking forward to launching our virtual community soon for more connection and support on this topic.

Love,

Rhea